<englang name="lang_eng" link="link" category="english">
<linkm link="page_1">Home</linkm>
<linkm link="page_2">Games</linkm>
<linkm link="page_3">Webs</linkm>
<linkm link="page_4">Projects</linkm>
<linkm link="page_5">Announcements</linkm>
<linkm link="page_6">Forum</linkm>
<linkm link="page_7">Information</linkm>
<linkm link="page_8">Rules</linkm>
<linkm link="page_9">Contacts</linkm>
</englang>
$linkes = array("Home" => 'page_1',"Games" => 'page_2',"Webs" => 'page_3',"Project" => 'page_4',"Announcements" => 'page_5',
"Forum" => 'page_6',"Information" => 'page_7',"Rules" => 'page_8'," Contacts" => 'page_9');
а если немного сократить :(
$agrs = $xml->rulang->linkm;
foreach ($agrs as $vals)
{
$linkes = array($vals =>$vals[link]);
}